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[audio]Deviance_Module 1_Kowalski.mp3
Audio Lecture for Module 1
Keywords: Kowalski Deviance SOC3400
Downloads: 128
[movies]Deviant Behavior - Bonnie Brabson
Rave movie clip
Keywords: deviance; behavior; rave
Downloads: 602
[audio]Kidsok Nuit - Sanatorium - Kidsok Nuit
Mp3 Release out on: INFRALEVE: http://infraleve.uuuq.com/kidsoknuitaudioe.htm www.kidsoknuit.altervista.org
Keywords: electroacoustic - sanatorium - mental deviance - sickness - noise - experimental - disorder
Downloads: 50
[texts]Orsett Psychological Review No.2 - Kevin Brewer, Daniel Allsopp
2 articles in issue no.2 of semi-academic journal, Orsett Psychological Review
Keywords: human cognition; common sense; consumer capitalism; civil religion; normality; deviance
Downloads: 138
[movies]Pedophile Narcissist: Narcissism, Pedophilia, and Hebephilia - Sam Vaknin
Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse - click on this link: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq1.html Pedophiles seem to have narcissistic and antisocial (psychopathic) traits. They lack empathy for their victims and express no remorse for their actions. They are in denial and, beingpathological confabulators, they rationalize their transgressions, claiming that the children were merely being educated for their own good and, anyhow, derived great pleasure from i...
Keywords: narcissist; psychopath; pedophile; pedophilia; hebephilia; children; sex; molestation; child molester; incest; sexual abuse; relationships; adult; paraphilia; sexual deviance; perversion; crime
Downloads: 353
[audio]Men For Common Sense: She Slipped Me Psilocybin - Men For Common Sense
As we bask in the glow of summer, the MFCS deemed it appropriate to offer up the final recordings of Season 5. It's not that we don't have product to spew from seasons 1-3, it's just that we really enjoy what has been most recently recorded. She Slipped Me Psilocybin is a double-disc length schmorgasm of heady verbiage and heavy psychedelics. Check out the kick-ass album art that Trans made too. Ginius! From the gradual march of the opening track Ladybug through the Psilocybin Suite you are guar...
Keywords: mushrooms; acid; toad-ass; fatherhood; glandular deviance; bread-and-water foot syndrome; generator jams; knife fights; motherfucking; 1967; summer-of-love; hippie communes
Downloads: 44
[movies]Psychopath? 5 Red Flags and 3 Rs Test: Remorse, Remediation, and Restoration - Sam Vaknin
Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse - click on this link: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq1.html 1. Psychopaths are âtoo good to be trueâ. They besiege their interlocutors with a relentless charm offensive, flaunting their accomplishments, skills, talents, brilliance, acuity, and good fortune. 2. Information asymmetry: The psychopath may flood you with unwanted and unwarranted information â and disinformation - about himself while conspicuously being inc...
Keywords: psychopath; narcissist; relationships; red flags; remorse; remediation; restoration; codependent; anxiety; alloplastic defense; false self; narcissism; psychopathy; antisocial; personality disorder; deviance; normal; fear; hostility
Downloads: 69
[audio]TFR640 - Dislabia, Ingested Lobotomized Remains, & Whore Torture - 3-Way Sexual Deviance - Dislabia, Ingested Lobotomized Remains, Whore Torture
3-Way Sexual Deviance Featuring Dislabia, Ingested Lobotomized Remains, and Whore Torture 01 - Dislabia - Crackwhore Evisceration 02 - Dislabia - Necrophallus (Ft. IxLxRx) 03 - Dislabia - Ejactulation Beast 04 - Dislabia - Enema Bulldozer (CBT Cover) 05 - Ingested Lobotomized Remains - Debilitate 06 - Ingested Lobotomized Remains - Prostitute Butchery 07 - Ingested Lobotomized Remains - Atheoretical 08 - Ingested Lobotomized Remains - Shoving Feces Down Her Throat 09 - Whore Torture - Basement S...
Keywords: Dislabia; IxLxRx; Ingested; Lobotomized; Remains; &; Whore; Torture; 3-Way; Sexual; Deviance; Split; Torn; Flesh; Records; Slam; Goregrind; Pornogrind; Brutal; Death; Metal; Grindcore
Downloads: 2,898
[movies]Sex and Narcissistic Supply: Cerebral, Somatic, and YOU! - Sam Vaknin
Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse - click on this link: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq1.html The psychosexuality of all types of narcissists â cerebral and somatic alike â involves the objectification and interchangeability of intimate partners. Narcissists are polyamorous and autoerotic. Quite a few of them have comorbid sexual paraphilias (are deviant.) The cerebral narcissist aims to stabilize the flow of narcissistic supply by suppressing his sexu...
Keywords: narcissist; cerebral; somatic; narcissism; personality disorder; sex; sexuality; psychosexuality; intimacy; couple; intimate partner; abstience; celibacy; deviance; paraphilia; group sex; threesome; orgies; swinging; body; brain; intellect; sexless marriage; asexual
Downloads: 801
[movies]Indifferent Narcissist - Sam Vaknin
Early on in life, the narcissist learns to disguise his socially-unacceptable indifference as benevolence, equanimity, cool-headedness, composure, or superiority. "It is not that I don't care about others" -- he shrugs off his critics -- "I am simply more level-headed, more resilient, more composed under pressure... They mistake my equanimity for apathy." The narcissist tries to convince people that he is compassionate...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 31
[movies]Narcissist Therapy Notes - Sam Vaknin
He is married but sexually inactive. Sex bores him and he regards it as a "low-level" activity practiced by "empty-headed" folk. He has better uses for his limited time. He is aware of his own mortality and conscious of his intellectual legacy. Hence his sense of entitlement. He never goes through established channels. Instead, he uses his connections to secure anything from medical care to car repair...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 40
[movies]Narcissist: Life as a Film - Sam Vaknin
The way the narcissist experiences his life is akin to watching a movie, the illusion is not complete, neither is it precise. This detachment continues for as long as the narcissist's ego-dystonic behaviour persists, for as long as the crisis goes on, for as long as the narcissist cannot face who he is, what he is doing and the consequences of his actions. Since this is the case most of the time, the narcissist gets used to seeing himself in the role of the protagonist (usually the hero) of a mo...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 39
[movies]Old-age Narcissist - Sam Vaknin
The narcissist ages without mercy and without grace. His withered body and his overwrought mind betray him all at once. He stares with incredulity and rage at cruel mirrors. He refuses to accept his growing fallibility. He rebels against his decrepitude and mediocrity. Accustomed to being awe-inspiring and the recipient of adulation - the narcissist cannot countenance his social isolation and the pathetic figure that he cuts...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 72
[movies]Narcissist: Legally Insane? - Sam Vaknin
The narcissist often has rage attacks and grandiose fantasies. Most narcissists are also mildly obsessive-compulsive. Yet, all narcissists should be held accountable to the vast and overwhelming majority of their actions. At all times, even during the worst explosive episode, the narcissist can tell right from wrong and reign in their impulses. The narcissist's impulse control is unimpaired, though he may pretend otherwise in order to terrorize, manipulate and coerce his human environment into c...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 55
[movies]Narcissist Loves his Disorder and Narcissistic Personality - Sam Vaknin
The narcissist is emotionally attached to only one thing: his disorder. The narcissist loves his disorder, desires it passionately, cultivates it tenderly, is proud of its "achievements" (and in my case, makes a living off it). His emotions are misdirected. Where normal people love others and empathize with them, the narcissist loves his False Self and identifies with it to the exclusion of all else - his True Self included...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 35
[movies]Narcissistic and Psychopathic Politicians and Leaders - Sam Vaknin
The narcissistic or psychopathic leader is the culmination and reification of his period, culture, and civilization. He is likely to rise to prominence in narcissistic societies. The leader's mental health pathologies resonate with the anomies of his society and culture ("psychopathological resonance".) The leader and the led form a self-enhancing and self-reinforcing feedback loop, a dyad of mirrored adoration and reflected love...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 48
[movies]Narcissist's Accomplices - Sam Vaknin
Narcissists are aided, abetted and facilitated by four types of people and institutions: the adulators, the blissfully ignorant, the self-deceiving and those deceived by the narcissist. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 59
[movies]Narcissist as Adrenaline Junkie - Sam Vaknin
Narcissistic Supply is exciting. When it is available, the narcissist feels elated, omnipotent, omniscient, handsome, sexy, adventurous, invincible, and irresistible. When it is missing, the narcissist first enters a manic phase of trying to replenish his supply and, if he fails, the narcissist shrivels, withdraws and is reduced to a zombie-like state of numbness. Some people -- and all narcissists -- are addicted to excitement, to the adrenaline rush, to the danger inevitably and invariably inv...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 43
[movies]Cyber (Internet) Narcissists and Psychopaths - Sam Vaknin
To the narcissist, the Internet is an alluring and irresistible combination of playground and hunting grounds, the gathering place of numerous potential Sources of Narcissistic Supply, a world where false identities are the norm and mind games the bon ton. And it is beyond the reach of the law, the pale of social norms, the strictures of civilized conduct. The somatic finds cyber-sex and cyber-relationships aplenty...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 54
[movies]Spree Shooter's Psychology - Sam Vaknin
Most spree shooters are loners. They are either schizoid (with deficient interpersonal skills) or paranoid and even paranoid-schizophrenic (psychotic, delusional). Their dysfunction is all-pervasive: their family life, career, romantic relationships, professional and material accomplishments are all adversely affected by their mental mayhem. They feel excluded and shunned and are profoundly ashamed of and frustrated with their inadequacies and with their sadistic, self-destructive, suicidal, and...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 46
[movies]Narcissist's Objects and Possessions - Sam Vaknin
The narcissist parades his objects, flaunts them, consumes them conspicuously, praises them vocally, draws attention to them compulsively, brags about them incessantly. When they fail to elicit Narcissistic Supply - admiration, adulation, marvel - the narcissist feels wounded, humiliated, deprived, discriminated against, the victim of a conspiracy, unloved. Objects often make the accumulator-narcissist...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 37
[movies]Narcissist Hates Happy People - Sam Vaknin
"Holiday blues are a common occurrence even among the mentally sound. In me they provoke a particularly virulent strain of pathological envy. I am jealous at others for having a family, or for being able to celebrate lavishly, or for being in the right, festive mood. My cognitive dissonances crumble. I keep telling myself: "Look at those inferior imitations of humans, slaves of their animated corpses, wasting their time, pretending to be happy"...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 62
[movies]Narcissism: Not Self-love! - Sam Vaknin
There are two differences between healthy self-love and pathological narcissism: (a) in the ability to tell reality from fantasy, and (b) in the ability to empathise and, indeed, to fully and maturely love others. As we said, the narcissist does not love himself. It is because he has very little True Self to love. Instead, a monstrous, malignant construct -- the False Self -- encroaches upon his True Self and devours it...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 74
[movies]Narcissist as Compulsive Giver - Sam Vaknin
To all appearances, the compulsive giver is an altruistic, empathic, and caring person. Actually, he or she is a people-pleaser and a codependent. The compulsive giver is trapped in a narrative of his own confabulation: how his nearest and dearest need him because they are poor, young, inexperienced, lacking in intelligence or good looks, and are otherwise inferior to him. Compulsive giving, therefore, involves pathological narcissism...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 52
[movies]Narcissist Has No Friends - Sam Vaknin
Narcissists can't empathise or love and, therefore, have no friends. The narcissist is one track minded. He is interested in securing Narcissistic Supply from Narcissistic Supply Sources. He is not interested in people as such. He is incapable of empathising, is a solipsist, and recognises only himself as human. To the narcissist, all others are three dimensional cartoons, tools and instruments in the tedious and Sisyphean task of generating and consuming Narcissistic Supply...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 54
[movies]Depressive Narcissist - Sam Vaknin
Many scholars consider pathological narcissism to be a form of depressive illness. This is the position of the authoritative magazine "Psychology Today". The life of the typical narcissist is, indeed, punctuated with recurrent bouts of dysphoria (ubiquitous sadness and hopelessness), anhedonia (loss of the ability to feel pleasure), and clinical forms of depression (cyclothymic, dysthymic, or other)...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 62
[movies]Narcissists Have Emotions - Sam Vaknin
The narcissist's positive emotions come bundled with very negative ones. This is the outcome of frustration and the consequent transformations of aggression. This frustration is connected to the Primary Objects of the narcissist's childhood (parents and caregivers). The narcissist can appreciate beauty but in a cerebral, cold and "mathematical" way. Many have no mature, adult sex drive to speak of...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 139
[movies]Inverted Narcissist (Narcissist Codependent) - Sam Vaknin
To "qualify" as an inverted narcissist, you must CRAVE to be in a relationship with a narcissist, regardless of any abuse inflicted on you by him/her. You must ACTIVELY seek relationships with narcissists and ONLY with narcissists, no matter what your (bitter and traumatic) past experience has been. You must feel EMPTY and UNHAPPY in relationships with ANY OTHER kind of person. Only then, and if you satisfy the other diagnostic criteria of a Dependent Personality Disorder, can you be safely labe...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 74
[movies]Narcissist of Substance vs. Narcissist of Appearances - Sam Vaknin
Why do some narcissists end up being over-achievers, pillars of the community, and accomplished professionals - while their brethren fade into obscurity, having done little of note with their lives? There seem to be two types of narcissists: those who derive ample narcissistic supply from mere appearances and those whose narcissistic supply consists of doing substantial deeds, of acting as change-agents, of making a difference, and of creating and producing things of value...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 48
[movies]Bad Therapy for Abuse Victims and Survivors - Sam Vaknin
Victims of abuse are saddled with emotional baggage which often provokes even in the most experienced therapists reactions of helplessness, rage, fear and guilt. Countertransference is common: therapists of both genders identify with the victim and resent her for making them feel impotent and inadequate (for instance, in their role as "social protectors"). Reportedly, to fend off anxiety and a sense of vulnerability ("it could have been me, sitting there!"), female therapists involuntarily blame...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 53
[movies]Narcissist: Is He or Isn't He? - Sam Vaknin
Isn't your definition of malignant narcissism too wide? Having read it, I think that it fits my neighbours, friends, and family to a "t". Everyone seems to be a narcissist to me now! This is an understandable reaction. All of us have narcissistic TRAITS. Some of us even develop a narcissistic PERSONALITY, or a narcissistic STYLE. Moreover, narcissism is a SPECTRUM of behaviors - from the healthy to the utterly pathological (a condition known as the Narcissistic Personality Disorder, or NPD)...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 192
[movies]Twitter Narcissism - Sam Vaknin
It has become fashionable to castigate Twitter - the microblogging service - as an expression of rampant narcissism. Yet, narcissists are verbose and they do not take kindly to limitations imposed on them by third parties. They feel entitled to special treatment and are rebellious. They are enamored with their own voice. Thus, rather than gratify the average narcissist and provide him or her with narcissistic supply (attention, adulation, affirmation), Twitter is actually liable to cause narciss...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 60
[movies]Narcissist: Re-Parent Yourself! - Sam Vaknin
To a narcissist, I would recommend a functional approach, along the following lines: Know and accept thyself. This is who you are. You have good traits and bad traits and you are a narcissist. These are facts. Narcissism is an adaptive mechanism. It is dysfunctional now, but, once, it saved you from a lot more dysfunction or even non-function. Make a list: what does it mean to be a narcissist in your specific case? What are your typical behaviour patterns? Which types of conduct do you find to b...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 83
[movies]When the Narcissist's Parents Die - Sam Vaknin
The narcissist needs his parents alive mostly in order to get back at them, to accuse and punish them for what they have done to him. This attempt at reciprocity ("settling the scores") represents to him justice and order, it introduces sense and logic into an otherwise totally chaotic mental landscape. It is a triumph of right over wrong, weak over strong, law and order over chaos and capriciousness...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
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[movies]Narcissist Never Sorry - Sam Vaknin
The narcissist always feels "bad". He experiences all manner of depressive episodes and lesser dysphoric moods. He goes through a full panoply of mood disorders and anxiety disorders. He experiences panic from time to time. It is not pleasant to be a narcissist. But he has a diminished capacity to empathise so he rarely feels sorry for what he does. He almost never puts himself in the shoes of his "victims"...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
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[movies]Embarrassing Narcissist - Sam Vaknin
The narcissist rarely admits to a weakness, ignorance, or deficiency. He filters out information to the contrary - a cognitive impairment with serious consequences. Narcissists are likely to unflinchingly make inflated and inane claims about their sexual prowess, wealth, connections, history, or achievements. All this is mighty embarrassing to the narcissist's nearest, dearest, colleagues, friends, neighbours, even on-lookers...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
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[movies]Can Narcissist Truly Love? - Sam Vaknin
One type of narcissist "loves" others as one would attach to objects. He "loves" his spouse, for instance, simply because she exists and is available to provide him with Narcissistic Supply. He "loves" his children because they are part of his self-image as a successful husband and father. He "loves" his "friends" because â and only as long as â he can exploit them. Such a narcissist reacts with alarm and rage to any sign of independence and autonomy in his "charges"...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
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[movies]Bipolar Disorder Misdiagnosed as Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) - Sam Vaknin
The manic phase of Bipolar I Disorder is often misdiagnosed as Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Bipolar patients in the manic phase exhibit many of the signs and symptoms of pathological narcissism - hyperactivity, self-centeredness, lack of empathy, and control freakery. During this recurring chapter of the disease, the patient is euphoric, has grandiose fantasies, spins unrealistic schemes, and has frequent rage attacks (is irritable) if her or his wishes and plans are (inevitably) fru...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
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[movies]Adolescent Narcissist: "Donovan" - Sam Vaknin
Donovan, 16 years old, is incapable of loving and, therefore, has never loved you, his mother (or, for that matter, anyone else, himself included) in his entire life. His natural capacity to love and to return love was all but eliminated by his horrid childhood. We practice loving first and foremost through our parents. If they fail us, if they turn out to be unpredictable, capricious, violent, unjust -- this capacity is stunted forever...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
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[movies]Narcissist: No Sense of Humor - Sam Vaknin
Some narcissists have a great sense of humor. In this, they are no different than healthier specimen of the human species. The narcissist, though, rarely engages in self-directed, self-deprecating humour. If he does, he expects to be contradicted, rebuked and rebuffed by his listeners ("Come on, you are actually quite handsome!"), or to be commended or admired for his courage or for his wit and intellectual acerbity ("I envy your ability to laugh at yourself!")...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
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[movies]Narcissist's Cognitive Deficits - Sam Vaknin
The narcissist lacks empathy. He is, therefore, unable to meaningfully relate to other people and to truly appreciate what it is to be human. Instead, he withdraws inside, into a universe populated by avatars â simple or complex representations of parents, peers, role models, authority figures, and other members of his social milieu. There, in this twilight zone of simulacra, he develops "relationships" and maintains an on-going internal dialog with them...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 114
[movies]Narcissists: Evil? - Sam Vaknin
The narcissist is able to tell right from wrong and to distinguish between good and evil. In the pursuit of his interests and causes, he sometimes chooses to act wickedly. Lacking empathy, the narcissist is rarely remorseful. Because he feels entitled, exploiting others is second nature. The narcissist abuses others absent-mindedly, off-handedly, as a matter of fact. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
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[movies]School Shooting Psychology - Sam Vaknin
Adolescents who are consistently mocked and bullied by peers, role models, and socialization agents (such as teachers, coaches, and parents) are prone to find succor in grandiose fantasies of omnipotence and omniscience. To sustain these personal myths, they may resort to violence and counter-bullying. The same applies to youths who feel deprived, underestimated, discriminated against, or at a dead end...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
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[movies]Self-Aware Narcissist: Still a Narcissist - Sam Vaknin
Narcissism defines the narcissist's waking moments and his nocturnal dreams. It is all-pervasive. Everything the narcissist does is motivated by it. Everything he avoids is its result. Every utterance, decision, his very body language - are all manifestations of narcissism. It is rather like being abducted by an alien and ruthlessly indoctrinated ever since. The alien is the narcissist's False Self - a defence mechanism constructed in order to shield his True Self from hurt and inevitable abando...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 105
[movies]Narcissist: Loser and Failure - Sam Vaknin
Three traits conspire to render the narcissist a failure and a loser: his sense of entitlement, his haughtiness and innate conviction of his own superiority, and his aversion to routine. The narcissist's sense of entitlement encourages his indolence. He firmly believes that he should be spoon-fed and that accomplishments and honors should be handed to him on a silver platter, without any commensurate effort on his part...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
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[movies]Narcissist's Pathological Grandiosity - Sam Vaknin
Dump him and go about reconstructing your own life. Very few people deserve the kind of investment that is an absolute prerequisite to life with a narcissist. To cope with a narcissist is a full time, energy and emotion-draining job, which reduces people around him to insecure nervous wrecks. Who deserves such a sacrifice? No one, to my mind, not even the most brilliant, charming, breathtaking, suave narcissist...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 166
[movies]Narcissism is Tiring and Energy-depleting - Sam Vaknin
Normally, one's energy is expended on the proper functioning of one's personality. The personality disordered devote any shred of vitality to the projection and maintenance of a False Self, whose sole purpose is to elicit attention, admiration, approval, acknowledgement, fear, or adulation from others. The Narcissistic Supply thus obtained helps these unfortunates to calibrate a wildly fluctuating self-esteem and, thus, fulfils critical ego functions...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
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[movies]Compulsive Narcissist - Sam Vaknin
There is a strong compulsive strand in the narcissist's behaviour. He is driven to exorcise internal demons by means of ritualistic acts. The narcissist's very pursuit of Narcissistic Supply is compulsive. The narcissist seeks to recreate and reenact old traumas, ancient, unresolved conflicts with figures of (primary) importance in his life. The narcissist develops a private religion with the False Self at its centre...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
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[movies]Narcissist: Misanthropic Altruist - Sam Vaknin
Some narcissists are ostentatiously generous -- they donate to charity, lavish gifts on their closest, abundantly provide for their nearest and dearest, and, in general, are open-handed and unstintingly benevolent. How can this be reconciled with the pronounced lack of empathy and with the pernicious self-preoccupation that is so typical of narcissists? The act of giving enhances the narcissist's sense of omnipotence, his fantastic grandiosity, and the contempt he holds for others...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
Downloads: 63
[movies]Asperger's Disorder Misdiagnosed as Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) - Sam Vaknin
Asperger's Disorder is often misdiagnosed as Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). In both cases, the patient is self-centered and engrossed in a narrow range of interests and activities. Social and occupational interactions are severely hampered and conversational skills (the give and take of verbal intercourse) are primitive. The Asperger's patient body language - eye to eye gaze, body posture, facial expressions - is constricted and artificial, akin to the narcissist's...
Keywords: narcissism; personality; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; NPD; psychopaths; antisocial; psychopathology; therapy; relationships; abuse; divorce; battering; spousal abuse; domestic violence; psychotherapy; personality disorders; cluster B; DSM IV; self; ego; object relations; psychodynamics; stalking; harassment; emotional abuse; verbal abuse; psychological abuse; sexual abuse; molestation; incest; deviance; perversions; schizoid; antisocial; borderline; psychology; psychiatry; pathology; inverted; compensatory; pedophilia; paraphilias; serial killers
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